August 31st, 2010
Well folks, there’s no way to avoid it. August is coming to an end and with it the true summery feel of Summer. The stores are breaking out the cool weather clothes and school supplies are cluttering store shelves. Kids are beginning to wear that haunted look that says ” Shit, it can’t be that time already!!!” Around here school opens in about a week or so, and harried Mothers are counting the minutes.
It’s not that we don’t love our kids. But by this time of year the at home Moms are tired of chauffeuring, refereeing, devising entertainment and trying to get their offspring to hold up their own end of the deal, whatever that might be. Working Moms have had it with sitters, unsettled schedules and the ever present “Mom guilt” that often accompanies the long summer days. We’re a four season area, and while many wish summer would last longer, countless women are in let’s get on with it mode.
We do have one “child” finishing her last semester before grad school. But she, along with her brother, sister in law and niece are a thousand miles away. So that leaves me without any back-to-school obligations these days, except for my own odd little September ritual. Despite the fact I haven’t been in school since graduating High School in 1973, each Autumn I purchase myself new pencils, pens and notebook. It makes me feel ready. For what, I’m uncertain. But if one of my old teachers should show up, I’m prepared to take notes. Good grief.
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August 17th, 2010
I’ve got this three week trip across our fabulous country dancing around in my head. There is so much, it’s difficult to know where to begin. Never having been further west than Wisconsin, there was a great deal I hadn’t seen or experienced. Huge mountains and desolate prairie. Winding rivers such a deep shade of blue that it steals one’s breath. Mount Rushmore and the in-progress gigantic Crazy Horse Monument. Yellowstone, and watching hundreds of bison cross the road in no hurry, and with great nonchalance. The museum of the Massacre at Wounded Knee. Big sky and cowboy boots on fence posts around homes and ranches. Towns with populations of 28, while one with 1500 citizens is a “city”. Mount St. Helen’s and the stripped trees still floating in Spirit Lake 30 years later. Landscape that can go from flat, brown and sagebrush covered to green and mountainous in the blink of an eye.
I feel quite humbled, and grateful to have been able to experience it all. Mother nature always puts one in one’s place, doesn’t she? Speaking with the “locals” is always one of the pleasures of travel. I’ve been called “ma’am” by a cowboy (a brief instant of wishing I was 20 years younger and single) and purchased a handmade beaded necklace from an elderly Indian of immense dignity at the side of the road in the middle of nowhere. Felt collective guilt while driving through miles of Reservation land, and seeing the plight of Native Americans. Watched children play amidst a garden of flowers that had to be seen to be believed. Saw the awe in the faces of my country men and women as they gloried in the same sights that were overwhelming me. I also ate way too much and have expended my calorie allowance through Thanksgiving. There’s always a down side, isn’t there?
Although it was close once or twice, I didn’t melt. I learned you can spend three weeks traveling in an antique bus with friends and still be friends upon homecoming. Realized that clothing disappears from suitcases much as it does from the dryer at home, and that I have a “Jersey” accent. The only hamburgers you can get out west are tortured into seared and weathered hockey pucks. No such thing as medium, let alone rare. Having met our daughter for the last 6 days of the trip, I was reminded that she and her father are funny together, and a pleasure to watch. Although I could have done without that one lady’s room moment with Kate. The one where we entered a two stall bathroom with one stall occupied. She heads for the empty perch and pounds on the other door on the way past. Leaving me to explain to the woman that it wasn’t ME, but my daughter being amusing. Good grief.
A wonderful time awaits me in September as well. I get a few days down south, visiting our son, daughter-in-law, daughter AND our wonderful Arielle, who is growing in leaps and bounds. I cannot wait to wrap my arms around her, and catch up with her life. Pure heaven! So good night and the best to all….
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August 13th, 2010

Well, my husband and I returned on the redeye from Seattle yesterday morning at six. We boarded the plane at around ten pm. Once airborne I requested a glass of wine, a large seltzer and a cure for mega-hot flashes. Only got two out of three, but the flight attendant was amused. A few bumpy moments ( and a heart felt prayer) led me to a xanax and a nap. I always get an aisle seat and surrender the arm on the other side to my neighbor. He was young, handsome and quite gay. Obviously, he had no designs on my person but he must have been chilly. He gravitated toward me the entire time he slept and despite my frequent nudges, kept coming over in my direction. And so my hotflashes kept a random stranger warm and cozy for the entire flight. Obviously, my life has not been in vain.
My thanks to Colleen for keeping the blog up during my absence in such an entertaining fashion. She has a stylish way of expressing herself, and I was quite grateful not to have to blog while on the road using my husband’s laptop. She saved our marriage, as I’m certain I’d have crashed it and lost everything on his hard drive, or whatever you call it.
As I’m still punchy from doing five thousand miles cross country in a non-air-conditioned 1930 vintage bus, I’ll quit here. Hello again, good bye for now, and tra-la, tra-la…
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August 6th, 2010
Am I the only one who absolutely detests those television commercials from the Canada Tourism Board? I literally cringe when one is aired!
I loathe the shaky camera technique, which makes me mildly nauseous. Do they do that to give the feeling of a bad amateur video or to hopefully keep the audiences interest? Or maybe they do it just to make people vaguely queasy while proclaiming the shaky virtues of a Canada vacation.
I hate the barely-human grunts, screams and guttural sounds of the audio in all the different versions of the ad as well. Does anyone know adults that actually utter any of these sounds?
What were they thinking? I was never that interested in visiting Canada to begin with…..and now this series of commercials only make me want to visit even less.
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August 3rd, 2010
With Marian’s new Grandmother status, the circle of life and its’ continuity has been on my mind a lot. It’s really amazing, isn’t it? The birth of a baby? To first see your children, then your grandchildren–each with part of yourself in them–born, grow and mature, to one day have children of their own? There is something very comforting to me about that continuing cycle. And very empowering–knowing that even after you and I are long gone, we live on in perpetuity.
I’ve always believed that child rearing is undoubtedly the single most important job in the world. Simultaneously scary and wonderful, what could possibly be more important than molding the minds of the future?
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